Does she really like me?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i have a friend of mine that is a girl that i meet about a month ago that has a boyfriend she has been going out with for 6 months now. He will be going to college next year and she will be staying in high school with me and a few of her friends dont think that their relationship will last. Also over the past few weeks she has had mixed feelings about him, telling me how she doesnt think she likes him anymore and then sometimes she seems like she really does like him. But we started hanging out through friends and we hit it off like that and it seeems like ive know her forevre and whenever im with her everything seems so right. For awhile she was really flirty with me always trying to touch me in some way n picking on me. About 3 weeks knowing her and all the flirting we ended up holding hands during a movie and she was the one who engaged it and let me know it was alright. So weve held hands about 15 times or so and ive also hand my hand pretty far up on her thigh. Also the times we have held hands ex. during the movie Grease and also she grabbed my hand when she heard the song "summer lovin" on the radio. The other day i told her how i felt n she respect it and she said that if she didnt have a boyfriend this wouldnt be so hard. she says she thinks about it alot.(as in me and her being together). I told her that its fine and that ill wait for her but in more detail and deep and she said that i make her Speechless and countless times shed told me i make her so happy n feel so special. She has also told me id make a great boyfriend for her.. All in all i just want to know if she is just having a fling with me or something more serious?
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
Your in Dude, just be patient. Let her know your willing to what it takes to be with her.
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