We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i've been with my man for a little over a year and like all relationships it was great at first. we want to get married and we both love each other more than words can explain. he was gonna get me a ring and everything around x-mas last year but that changed cuz we had a really bad fight about my ex fiancee. now it seems like the fighting doesn't stop. if i talk to my friends and ask advice from them, he gets mad cuz he says it's no one elses business. however, i can't talk to him about it cuz it just makes him worse. he wants us to compromise but when the opportunity comes around it's always his way or the highway. i can't give him a taste of his own medicine cuz he'll leave me. and he's always calling me a gold digger anymore. i've never asked him for anything since we've been together. i've about had it with him but i know we can be happy again. and that's all i want.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
once again this sounds familier. im 1 and if he loves you he wont leave you. but i had to put my foot down. because he is controlling you ang that's not love... try it and let him see how if it feels he probally wont leave, but you have to be cosistant with it. it worked perfect for me!!!!!!!!!!! if it dont it wasnt ment to be anyway
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