I feel real close to him....

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Im 14...i been goin out wit my boyfriend for bout a month,i left my other "SHY" boyfriend.LoL...but anywayz,i really like my boyffriend,i've known him since the beggining of the year,he was there 4 me when my ex boyfriend treated me wrong,he alwayz put a smile in my face when i wuz down. I go to his house every month,like bout 1 day each month,he only been to mine once. This was the first boyfrind i been to his house to, and is special for me. And i feel like he's the right one, i mean the right one, i met his mom, i think she likes me also,im really lookin forward to this relationship to last long. i told my dad i go out with him. he is a very kind,funny,cute,great great personlaity, and the type of guy i alwayz been loking for. but i dont kno if i shoudl lose my virginity to him?im not sayin i wanna lose it now..but later in life mayb wen im 15 or when we make year or somethin or few months?So do u think i should have sex? or jus start off by oral sex? we kissed and touched but we never did any sexual activites yet..so wut shud i do???

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female

well from experience you dont need yo have sex with him anytime soon. I first had sex when i was 14 and not only did i get my heart broke but boys respect you alot better if you wait. If they know you are not a virgin and you start dating they'll more than likely want sex too. This is time spent having fun with your friends too, not raising a baby like me. Shes two and I love her but its hard. She's now 2 and Im 22. Also a baby is the worst best thing you can get form sex. Does that make sense.

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