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Original Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Person
I have had bad relationships in the past which makes me not trust someone new. i had been dating this guy for about 2 months and I trust him only to a certain extent. We have had many problems because of trust. He wants me to trust him 100 percent and I feel it is too early to do that. Am I wrong? How is trust suppose to work? He dumped me about 4 days ago because he received a call from his ex girlfriend and I was upset about this. He was traveling to his hometown that same weekend and she had found out about it so she called him. I was upset and since he said I could not trust him he dumped me. I really don't know if he dumped me because of trust or is it that he wanted something with his ex and wanted me out the way so he can do whatever during his vacation time.
User Submitted Advice from a 61-70 year old Female
Dump him. It was to much convenient, her call, him going home, breaking up with you using your insecurity as an excuse. Look else where. The good ones are still out there.
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