I'm not sure if he really loves me, or if he pities me, or if he only wants me for his sexual desires



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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months. I love him with all of my heart, he tells me he loves me as well. We have become quite intimate, both through actions and words... After we had been dating a few week, I told him my greatest secret, I am a cutter... At times I have come close to suicide. But I was caught and now I have gotten help from 'doctors'. But sometimes I wonder if he only stays with me because he's afraid if he left me, I'd kill myself... I'm not saying I wouldn't, but I'm not sure if he really loves me, or if he pities me, or if he only wants me for his sexual desires... I am 14.

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Confused By Love




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Tell him how you feel


he may love you but becuase you do cut they may also lour him into staying with you...simply ask him and tell him how you feel about the whole situation

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