He's Married and not sure if he wants to be with his wife
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
He is married but he's not sure if he wants to stay with his wife, he would rather talk to me and spend time with me than his wife, they have no sex life and he thinks things are not ganna work out with them. I know he is not lieing to me about this. My question is, i know he likes me and has feelings for me, he is a very honist person as am I, should i just wait and see what this becomes or should I back out now? I admit i do have feelings for him as well, we didnt plan this it just happend. We started out as friends and it grew to intamacy.
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
As the wife, my husband was doing the very same thing. What you still have to realize is that what he is doing is wrong, what you are doing is wrong. Why would you want to start a relationship with someone under these circumstances. I am sure that they are having sex, cause that is what he told the other girl, and guess what we were. If he is lying to his wife, then really how honest can he be? You really need to step totally away from this, and find someone who is not playing both sides of the fence.
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