He's a Shy Guy How do I read Him
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Im in the 8th grade(13) the guy i like is the same age in the 7th, well he is a shy guy and i have found that out. Now i know that he likes me because he startes and looks in my eyes alot when im talking to him, so he is interested. And he already knows that i like him, and he lives right down the street, so i was wondering what is he waiting for, he already knows, and i think about him everyday. I always make him laugh and every time he sees me he smiles, but what is he waiting for the secert is already out of the bag? SOmetimes we walk together but not all the time, like somedays he will walk with me and others he won't waz up with that. So, WHAT IS HE WAITING FOR, AND WHAT SHOULD I DO, PLAY WITH HIM OR WHAT? How do you flirt and make a shy guy want you to. Like he normally walks with this girl evryday, and i know that they are just friends and she even said that, because they have known each other for a long time, so yeah, but he looks like he's bored with her, but when hes with me i make him smile and laugh all the time, so what do i do?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Getting out of shell
I'm a shy guy myself. Even though the secret might be out and I know the girl likes me back, sometimes it's just stressful, because I like her so much that I worry that I'm not good enough for her, or that I'll say the wrong things. So to overcome that, you gotta make him feel comfortable around you. Let him know that no matter what he does or says (within reason), it's okay, it won't change how you feel. You can do this by either coming out and telling him stright up, or just by listening and being there for him, and reacting in a way that suggests it. Shy guys do come out of their shells, it just takes a lot of work sometimes ^__^
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