Getting Her to Notice Me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I'm a sophmore in highschool, and there's this girl who I really like. She seems nice, attractive, and has a lot of friends. The problem is I can't get her to notice me. I've thought about slipping a rose in her locker, or putting a note in her violin case, but am to nervous to do it. Is it a good idea?
My question is, How do I get her to notice me? Maybe be friends??
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Yeah, I think if you like her,you should just start with saying hi. If you get a positive response, then keep doing the same thing, and when you know her a little better, ask her casually about herself, like, what sort of music she likes, and talk about funny stories, or something like that. People love to talk about themselves.
Take things slowly, though, and if she's keen, she should let you know.
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