My Female Friend is being Snuggly
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
There is this girl im crazy about she is my friend. but she keeps getting close to me kissing my cheek holding my hand, and hugging/holding me. But if anyone asks if were together she just says no i couldnt be with him we're just buddies, it's driving me crazy and toying with my emotions.
What should i do im going insane.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
oviously this girl has more feelings then she is leading on to. She feels comfortable and very relaxed around her friend. Finds him easy to experiment with in a irrisistable way. knowing that he has the feelings and is crazy over the girl makes it easier but he may not know how to persue it because she tells everyone they ae friends. A friendship is where things will start slowly if the guy feels something then the smallest touch will be more then anything else. Just don't worrie or get to fustrated wanting more it will not help. Take things slowly and see where things are headed but think with your eyes more open to circumstances then to lead completly with the heart. If you both are devoted to only each other and know what is ahead and you can handle it thats fine. Right now her feelings may be there may be confused a bit so she may tell people were just buddies untill she feels something in return enough to know it's permident and she can be proud enough to say hey were more then friends and It's easy to love him
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