How to deal with jealousy
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years,and were only still young, so we need time for our friends, but the thing is i cant trust him when he goes out, i just have a horrible feeling inside and get very upset even before he has gone out, i also dont like the girls who his friends hang around with, i get very jeolous when they are around my boyfriend.even though he has done nothing wrong and is always saying he loves me i still cant trust him, please help.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
trust is way to important not to have........sometimes non-trust can be a red flag of something else going on. It can also be a sign that there are underlining feelings that the person who is jealous has to deal with. Fear of loosing can bring that out. Its not cut and dry. The best part is not pushing it under the rug like it does not exsit. Get to the bottom of it, Is it him or is it you. Either way it turns out, you will be healthier in the long run for it :)
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