I Fell For Him and He Flirts back but has a girlfriend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok, heres the situation::: for the past four months or so I've had a humongus crush on one of my best guy friends. But he has a girlfriend who lives in another state. Everyday me and him get closer as friends but we still flirt. And it hurts emotionally becuase on my birthday he told me if he wasnt going out with her he would be with me. The problem is he doesnt break up with girls, he feels that if he breaks up with the girl it will make them hold a grudge. It sucks everyday to know hes flirting with me but going back everynight and talking to her ... Today he came up to me cuz i was upset and asked what was wrong , and i told him i'd tell him when i could figure out how. So HOW Do i tell him in essence whats wrong with out offending him and making him think i want him to break up with his girlfriend???
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Liar and cheat
I have a big crush on a guy friend who is 21 going on 22 and I am 29 going on 30. We have been flirting with each other. We have pet names for each other. But similar issues came up: Like he had a girlfriend who might live in the same state( he never mentioned that she was from the same state), I am also heartbroken because he hasn't told me how he felt about me. So I say leave him alone (that is what I am doing to my friend but it is hard on me because I might be in love with him.) and wait till the relationship with him and his girlfriend fails or Let him be because he is a liar and a cheat.
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