anxiety over a name
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I was dating a nice young lady. She showed interest to me. I was developing feelings for her so we hooked up. I recieved an "8th grade field trip" from her while my roomate was in the room. I really thought something good was begining but then the akwardness began. She has the same last name as me and I find it very wierd to talk about her and hook up with her because of it. Is it normal to have anxiety about dating someone with the same last name. What should I do?!?!?!?! thankyou
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
I say it should not be awkward for both of you if you both have the same last name. Take it into consideration that both of you have advantages of having the same last name and have a new relationship because there wont be any arguments about her changing her last name when the talk of marriage comes up(I am not saying you should do it soon).
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