does she like me or my best friend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
i really am confused and have been so 4 almost 6months u c i have a g/f but sumtimes it doesnt even seem it bcuz sometimes when we are cuddling and etc she will do this thing with my friend alex its like they look dead in the eyes and then my gf will sa ok lets go as in lets go have sex and he gets up like hes serious and she says im jus kiddin and like they hug ALOT! sometimes more than me and her do and im finding out stuff like that last summer she got fingered by my friend cuz me and my gf werent going out yet but he always braggs bout that and my gf gave him a h/job but it wuz truth or dare but i dont know i just feel cheated and like the 3rd wheel and after i leave i always think that they are flirting and making out i dont know if im instigating or its 4 real but im in desperate need of help please 4rm:Confused
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Ok i had the same problem but myn would talk at nite with myn i confronted my friend and her at the same time i was mad of course but you are in a worse position she already did stuff with him if a girl will get fingered in a game of truth or dare there is somthing more there then just a game she had/or has feelings for this person/your friend i would tell her "look if your going to keep doing this im going to leave" if she says she wont and doesent anymore then she really likes you if she is just like oh well then leave man no gurl is worth the pain i promis but if she says ok i wont and does then she is a lyer AND NOONE needs to be with a lyer you got your whole life man sometimes you got to lose to gain would you rather never know or just deal with it now i say deal with it now before its too late and they do somthing together or when you hang out with her dont let your friend be there if she ever askes were your friend is you should be really pissed off because if she is with you and she askes about another guy that means she is not thinking about you that means she is thinking about someone else and thats not good do what you want but try this and see if it pays off i hope it does man i really do i know how you fell......Nate
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