im in love with my best friend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
hi, theres this girl i really think im falling in love with. we are best friends, we do everything together. everything thats school related anyways, and we occasionally go out sometimes but with other friends. the thing is she has a boyfriend that shes een with for like a year and half. i really want to tell her how i feel, but im afraid if i do itll screw everything up. there have been times where i feel as if she has feelings for me, but then there are times where she talks about her boyfriend as if they are gonna get married. everytime she does this it makes me so mad. i dont kno wat to do bout it. do i tell her i have feelings for her so shell stop talking about him to me? or should i juss suck it up and hope they break up. sometimes i get the feeling that she is afraid to get close with me because she is afraid that her feelings for me will grow. we flirt all the time. she even asked me this one time " wat if we end up getting married." she knows i care about her and that i love her more than anyone i know. but she doesnt know that im actually in love with her. should i tell her how i feel or should i wait and see wat happens?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Go for it
i have been in the same exact situation and i feel that you should tell her how you really feel. because if my old bestfriend (which now my boyfriend for 2 amazing years) never told me how he really felt i would have never confessed my love for him also. i think you should just go for it babe.
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