What was he thinking after we had sex?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am not going out with this guy but we are intimate with each other when people are not around. he told me he likes me but is afraid of commitments. He said that he doesnt really know what he wants and anyway...I went to his house and we had sex. I wanted to do it and so did he but after sex, he was a little weird..I knew there was something bothering him but I couldnt figure it out..HE said...hes fine but I know theres something bothering him. Do u think he wont like me anymore now that i gave him what he wants.? What do u think hes worried of? He looked a little weird afterwards. I dont know what to do...He seems fine with me when we saw each other and it wasnt that awkward. Although..I am so attached to him now that I had sex with him. i dont know what to do..Please help me.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
i think that u should not be with somone that way when they can't speak about how they feel and how u feel thats not healthy for any relationship sexual or non sexual so talk to your patner let him know how you feel and try and get him to show his fellings u shouldn't get attach too soon anywats were young so take things slowly and talk things out
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