He cheated I'm jealous he still calls her!!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
Im 32 yrs old married for 10 yrs to my high school sweetheart, and he has only had sex with me. He had never been with another woman, now in the past month he has confessed to having an affair with a women who is much older than him. He says he loves her.We seperated than decided to try to work things out, so we are back together. The problem is they still have phone and emil contact. I have told him that it makes me very jealous that he needs to communicate with her. She had said that she felt bad for talking to him and yet she still calls and she still answers his calls. I am SOOOOO JEALOUS that I can't see straight. I try my hardest to be calm but I just want to scratch her eyes out. I haven't called her or confronted her because I do not want to feel stupid for fighting for my man like im in high school. Any advise??? anything to help me.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
George is an idiot
DO NOT LISTEN TO GEORGE.
Its the sillest thing we have heard... (we are a couple).
He cheated on you! He has to end this contact with this woman. She has no place in his life while he is with you.
He has to make a choice.
You said you both agreed to try again. You aren't jealous! You are justified. He is selfish and trying to have the best of both worlds.
Obviously you are insecure but either he stops this right now and starts dealing with your relationshop as the most important thing or get rid of him because he is not good for you.
You can't live with someone and give them 'one contact per week' with the person that they cheated with'.
Geroge is an idiot.
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