when to make the move
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I work at a coffee shop in a small town and this guy I liked last summer came back in today and told me that he is working in town again. We talked for a little while about what we have been up to and we smiled a lot, but I dont know if it was flirting. He comes in almost every day and i want to ask him out one of these days. I want to make sure he likes me enough so I dont seem to pushy. How long do I wait before I suggest a movie, or how do I get him to tell if hes interested or not?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
ok i am 17 i waited almost 6 month to ask this one girl out and by the time i did she had another boyfriend it broke my heart. i like this girl since the 7th grade. yes i do agree with the two week rule it is perfact. but dont wait to long or he may just ask another girl. i wish i knew then what i know now thank you for helping me
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