I am 13 and i want to ask someone out but i dont know how
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am 13 and i want to ask someone out but i dont know how because i went to a catholic school and did not learn much about dating because we were punished if the administration found out we even like someone and they said that we had problems. They did this to the point were most guys became gay. I dont know what to say or what to do. I am in a new school now and some of the girls i like hang out with guys i fought with or are just nuetrall with me and either dont know me or dont like me or they are my friends ex. also music is very big in my school and i am a hardcore maggot(slipknot fan) and many girls dont like them or think im weird cuz i listen to them but im not gunna give up rocking for a girl
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
13 is a rough time where no one knows what to do. But if you go throught her friends it's a lot easier to be friends. Give her some signs like asking her about boyfriends and so on. When you think it's time to ask her out (meaning she doesn't like anyone,isn't in a relationship, or isn't recovering from a break-up), just be totally honest, and make sure your not around "Gossip Girls" and work into the point, not saying flat out "I have strong feelings for you". And relaxe about Cathlic school, I went through it and I have a pretty good love life (with a rocky start). And music, start thinking about her favorites too, and don't make a big deal of it to her.
Hope this helps!-Will
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