I have a crush with my best friend's brother
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi. I have a crush with my best friend's brother. He's one year older than me. Well we talk but not that much because when i get near him i froze like i'm dead. My heart beating really hard and couldn't say anything. Anyways i've liked him for 2 years and my friends told him that i like him and he stop talking to me and everytime i'm around he always try some way to stay away from me. Well it's been awhile and then he talks to me again. He talks and fools around with me. I think he would pleases if i tell by myself than my friends telling him for me. But i didn't tell my friends to tell him, they've done it without my permission. Well then i had a club banquet and i was picking my best friend at their house. By the way, it's my best guy friend. my best friend knows that i was gonna ask his brother but i didn't tell him anything. He told him the day before the banquet. Then i called their house the same day he found out that i was going to ask him to make sure if my friend, is going and he picked up the phone with a happy voice. He didn't say 'hello' like everybody else does. He said 'yello' in a happy voice. And i didn't expect him to pick up the phone because they have caller id that even though you have blocked number, you still have to unblocked it.On the day of the banquet, i went to their house and he opened the door. The first thing he said was,"You look nice." And fireworks were in my mind because it was my compliment for the day. Then i said,"Thank you!" Then i asked if he wants to go on a last minute and he answered,"Oh no, i don't think so because i just got home from school and i don't have anything to wear." So yeah, probably it was a good, no, a great day if i had ask him earlier. If i could wish for one thing, it would be going back to that day and ask him earlier. So do you think he likes me or he just want me to be crazy about him. Please help me!!! :-[
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Alright, well I know how you feel. I like my bestfriend's brother too. Jenn said that you don't have enough evidence that he likes you, but honestly if he knows that you like him because your friends told him and he hasn't confronted you about it saying that he doesn't like you, chances are he does like you. If he didn't like you he would want you to know. My friend's brother, Josh found out I like him because when I told my best friend she said she would tell him that I like him, but would tell him she's not supposed to tell him. This would lead to his sis. finding out if he liked me too. Come to find out he did like me. So I called him the next day and told him and he told me. Sorry, I've been going on about myself, but tell him how you feel and hopefully he feels the same way, but be prepared that he doesn't, just in case. But here's the thing, you said your best friend knows you like his brother, that's good, but would he be okay with the two of you going out because it's pointless to tell him you like him if you can't go out with him anyways. Trust me, Josh and I like eachother and we aren't going out because even though his sis. is ok w/ it his mom isn't. She doesn't want my friendship w/ her daughter to be monopilized by me going out w/ her brother. So we aren't going out, but it was better when Josh and I didn't know we liked eachother because now it's just weird being around eachother so tell him how you fell after you find out if there is a chance w/ him as far as his parents and your friend think.
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