He is very verbaly and even sometimes physically abusive towards me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now and things have gone from bad to worse. He is very verbaly and even sometimes physically abusive towards me. We have never had sex because I want to wait for marriage and I feel he is frustrated because of that. Well, I recently took a vacation and met a 31 year old man (12 years my senior) who is in the process of divorce from his 2nd wife. We really connected and now I have feelings for him... meanwhile I still love my boyfriend but whether I would have met this guy or not, I am not sure I can spend the rest of my life with him. My boyfriend really wants to get married but I am scared that if I marry him, I will be abused. He is extremely controlling and possesive. I am really confused. Please Help.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Person
You must get out of this relationship if this person treates you like that then they donot respect you or desever you! and you need to work on you before you get into another relationship! how do you know this other person is not the same as the other? you have to love yourself first before anyone else an rember you come first before anyone!
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