She got tired of waiting
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Over the past 18 months a girl that I have known all my life has been giving me various mixed signals which have left me confused and wondering. I asked you guys about these mixed signals and u said that all the signs and signals she had been giving me were a very good indication that she was interested in me and waiting for me to get off my butt and do something about it.
Well, I havent had the guts to do anything about it and I saw her the other night with a bunch of blokes at a nightclub. And since then the signals have stopped. The funny thing is she was a completely different person when i saw her, and was hanging out with guys who were the complete opposite to me. I just don't understand why she would be showing interest in me then all of a sudden show interest in completely different people.
Is it possible that she just got sick and tired of waitng for me to get off my butt and gave up on me and started looking for those who do give her attention?
Is it still possible to win her back if something like this has happened?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Don't waste her time
okay i know alot about girls waiting on guys, because i waited on someone for along time. i thought he liked me but he didnt. the thing with girls is that we get it through our heads that if you dont do anything about it, then were deffinatly wasteing our time cause we think that yall dont like us. she probably still likes you, but she dosent want to show it.
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