does he really like me or is he using me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
i met this boy at the fair he is 17 years old and im 14 years old.. well a bunch of people told me he was a player and stuff like that and i was like what ever im not going to believe that. well he asked me to walk around with him and i was like ok and he asked me some questions about myself so he could get to know me. well after 2 hours i was already liking him a lot... then he asked me what i liked about him and i told him his personaillity,looks, how he talks, and stuff like that well i was like i know you probably dont like me. he stoped me and turned me around and looked at me right in the eyes and said i like your personaillity and your looks and the way you talk, and you are everything i want in a girl. well i gave him my number and he called that night but the next night he kinda of didnt act like he did the night before he was all mad and stuff like that because he was about to get into a fight. but after that he called me but i dont know if he really likes me or what i mean how if he is just using me for someone to go with or something. a lot of people ask me if we go out and im like no we dont and they go with i think yall should but this girl got in my face and she was like are you his girl and i said no i dont go with him me and him was just talking and she was like well im giving you the 411 now he is a big player. does he really like me or is he using me
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
it is this boy that go to my school.the first time we actually talked was at my cousin's boyfriend house.he started kissing me and he put a hickey on my neck.then when we got to school he started staring at me but he never said anything, then he said he love me so much, but he tells his friends that he don't like me, from what they tell me. he acts like he's all in love with me at home but at school he acts like he likes me but then again he acts like he don't.
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