Friends with Benefits
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
me and my guy friend has been friends for a long time. just recently we have become intimate and i really like him i even love him.
he tells his friends that he likes me and he wants to be with me however he doesn't want a relationship. our friendship is great but i do not want to have friends with benefits.
why doesn't he talk to me? please tell me what i should do.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Speak up and tell him, remember that you are someone worthy of getting what they want, if he doesn't give it to you, what he won't give there is another man out there willing and ready to give you the title and much more. Personally speaking when you go from a friendship to a realationship it's not always good, I just recently got involved with a friend that I have know for 2 years and now the person that was once a very good friend to me now I look at him like where the hell is my friend, he is really showing his true colors. Make sure that he is really what you want.
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