Iam a girl in love with my girlfriend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
i think iam in love with my best friend. we have been friends for 5 years. I have a great attractions toward her. I dont talk to her that often now. Im scared to show her how i really feel when i see her with other guys i get really jelous when we go clubbing i want her to dance with me only. when i dont talk to her i miss her alot. i dream about her alot and i always have her in my mind. do you think that is normal? I have this guy friend he is crazy over me and asked me out i told him i didnt know. but the truth is that guys dont interest me anymore.i used to write love poems to her and she actually accepted them. what should i do should i tell her how i feel? im scared i will lose her friendship? Or should i try going out with this guy even though i know i have her in my heart. i dont know what to do i get nervous when im with her and she attracts me alot damn she is so fine i wish i can hug her and kiss her and show her how much i care but im scared to do it.
please help me i need some advice. iam 21 years old
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
i was in the same situation and i could not tell you much more than to tell her. its the only way to get an answer. talk to her. if she tells you she doesnt feel more than friendship, i know it will hurt, but keep your head up, be nice, and tell her you understand. if she says she feels the same....thats good. but remember, you wont get an answer keeping quiet...let it out.
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