A Junior High Crush
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I'm only in junior high and I think i love this girl. She's really smart,has really long hair, she's very sexy and she plays the clarinet. Her first ex threatened to kill me because of my crush on her.
She knows I like her, but all she does is stare at me all day, not a word said and I'm too shy to speak to her! How can I get her to say something that I would want her to say. Help me please!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Whatever you do, you need to get up the nerve to talk to her: over the phone (get her number from the phone book or a friend of hers), by email (again, get her email from a friend of hers), by a note in her locker, or by instant messaging. Tell her that you would like to take her to something fun, like a local fair or amusement park. (is there a six flags by you? Always fun, trust me!) If she says yes, then take her and have a good time. After the date, ask if she would like to go for a second. If she says no to a first date, just shake it off. If you are mortified, you can always say "Phew! Thank God! One of my friends dared me to ask you out and, well, frankly, I didnt really want to. See you later!" This usually works, but if she starts to like you later she probably won't ask you out because she will think you don't like you. It's up to you what you say, though!
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