How to Flirt with a Guy



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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
This is so frustrating! I'm 20, I'm attending a great university, I'm intelligent, and athletic. Whenever I go out to clubs and bars guys always hit on me, etc. I rarely have to pay for food at restaurants when I have a male waiter, and even my friends' husbands hit on me (disturbing, yes).

I pledged a great sorority this year and we have our first dance coming up in a month. The problem: I have no one to ask! It is sooo embarrassing to be a sophomore in college and have no guy friends at all here. Am I not "good enough" for these private school boys or am I perhaps just putting up a wall (but I'm really friendly/nice)? Guys always chat w/ me, random ones smile at me around campus and stuff, but I have NEVER even been asked on a date.

My sorority has 11 crush-type events this semester and I'm dreading them all. I need advice on how to catch the interest of guys of this calibre before I crawl into a little hole of self-loathing. I feel out of practice as I havent ever been 1-on-1 with a guy in like 2 years. What can I do??




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Take charge


I think what you need to do is TAKE CHARGE! I know that can be kinda tough. Because I'm the type of girl to wait and let the guys come to me. BUT that don't always work. So I'm like this now: If I see someone I'm intrested in I go after it! ONLY go after the guy you want if he doesn't come to you! So what you need to do is find out what guy you're intrested in and let him know how you feel(without being kinky.) Using this advice you should be able to get any guy you want.

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