I Want to Make Him Happy
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I recently just got involved in a relationship with a great guy. I'm 21 years old and this is my first relationship. I'm clueless. What can I do to show him how much I care? I know that actions speak louder than words, but I'm not sure what little things I can do to make sure he is happy.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Hey! I'm also 21 and in my first relationship! (What a coincedence) So I have some advice for you hun! I totally AGREE with the advise already given 100% My beautiful boy and i have been together for 2 years and we are best friends... We don't TRY to please each other by doing things out of our nature... we please each other anyway with out trying... that happens when you find your soul mate. What ever you do.... DON'T TRY to please him hun! His face should light up simply by seeing you! You should be able to hold a flowing conversation without trying to keep him interested... If you already have that kind of bond... you don't need advise... your already working it!! If you don't have that connection...and feel like you have to add extra to make your boy happy... then you have to ask yourself a few baby questions... after all you are still young and have plenty of time to go shopping (If you know what i mean) Don't waste your time and emotions if their going unnoticed. AND i have 1 more thing to add..JUST TELL HIM.... "Babe all i want to do is make you happy... cause you make me happy" and finish with a kiss... And you've done it!! pretty easy huh! Good luck!
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