Getting my Husband Back
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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
My husband has just broken up with me after a year and a half of marriage, we hae been together nearly six years. He said that he des not love me anymore, but that nothing is wrong in fact that everthing was perfect. He said he would do anything to feel the love that we had for each other again. He says that he could not lie to me and feels that he does not love me anymore, but is ashamed of himself for hurting me so much because he cares for me.
I really love him and feel that we were made for each other, he feels this as well. We are both finding it very hard to understand why this has happened. He has said that he does not know how something so hard and that feels so wrong can be right, but he thinks it is.
We are both remaining friends and we are getting on ok it is uncomfortable and i have noticed him looking at me in the way he used too. anyway i just want some advice about getting him back. I am moving back to where i came from, which is a couple of hundred miles away and we will talk on the phone all of the time, but i really want him back. Thank you for your help.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
Mid life crisis? You are afraid to be alone so fear of the unknown is driving you. Especially at you age...women get desperate for someone to grow old with. If someone doesn't know if they love you, then they don't know how to love. He can't give what he doesn't have........love and compassion.
I'm sorry for your sudden abandonment. He is emotionally unavailable for you and probably didn't really "love" you to begin with. He doens't know what love is...maybe lust...but not love.
Sounds like he is going through some mid life crisis.....not your problem.
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