He wont talk to me, and I dont know why
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i developed a serious relationship starting when i was 16, it lasted for 3 1/2 years, and it recently ended about 2 months ago. I am not completely crushed and seriously depressed.
The thing is.. he's been avoiding me.. and all i want to do is be friends, because he means that much to me.. i just couldn't stand not to have him in my life. But he wont talk to me, and I dont know why. That's why i'm all depressed today, because I called him on the phone, and he told me he had no desire to talk to me and hung up.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Leave him alone. I promise you that if you ignore him for 2 weeks and 2 days....he'll talk with you. I know that is tough, but start marking the days on the calander.
Also, believe me you are going to find a lot better guys in a few years. At the very least, don't you think you deserve a guy to speak to you?
And the tough part...he doesn't want to be friends bc he knows you'll go back to the way you were.
Finally - he won't have respect for you (and hence won't get back together w. you or be friends) if you are weak and let him hang up on you.
I think you are bored (we all are sometimes) .... "occupy your darn time!!!!"
And if that doesn't work --- make up a new guy you are dating. Don't tell him, tell your big mouth friend. And WAIT.
Good Luck. Keep your head up!
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