I Love Her - She Loves Someone Else
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I have had a friend for 5 months in college(girl) , I never thought that may be she has a bf out of the school , and I tried my best for her , I did things for her that I dont rmember I have done for noone, because I thought that I have a one to one relation with her, just two weeks ago she told me something about her bf out of the school, and I was shocked, and the other day when I told her that I cant be your friend anymore, she was very surprised why this thing is bad for me, anyway, as much as I tried to change myself and dont mind about sort of things, I cant do anything, and I believe in a one to one relation, but now, my logic tells me definetly to leave her, but I am feeling very bad, and from the other hand I cant love her like before, because now I realize that I had my whole love for her, but she was in love with someone else, I dont know how to come out of this horrible feeling that I have, please help me how break up, because she is not gonna to leave her bf for me. please help me.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Let her go
maybe you should let her go. you can still find the right girl for you so dont give up just for her, remember you still have a chance of meeting someone new and someone you'll love more than her.
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