She Gives Me That Feeling
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I've known this girl since first grade who is starting to get closer to me somehow, or maybe its just my head.
We've rarely ever talked any, maybe just less then ten words per conversation because I am a quiet person, but she gives me that feeling of butterflies in your stomach like when you start talking to your first girlfriend on the phone or something.
The first time I felt like she was special was when she was chewing gum and I asked for a piece, at first I thought she walked away and had left me hanging...but a few seconds later she called me to her across the room and gave me some gum.
The second time was when she moved to my group during class for no reason, all she said was, "I'm coming over here.". The table I sit at is just three girls, and one of them wasnt there that day so she sat in her seat.
I couldn't figure any other reason she would move to my group other then to escape some annoyance at her own group.
The third time was intentional. I was being annoyed at my own group so I moved to hers. It was about time to leave class, and since this the only class I have with her, I wanted to do something before it was over. However, nothing came. She just acted nervous, like she was trying to find something to do. She pulled out some sweet scented lotion and rubbed it on her forearms, then the rest of the time she just rummaged through her purse.
Every memory I have of eye contact is of her laughing at the same time, partly because I cant keep a straight face either when she looks at me.
So what do you think? She is a nice person, who despite being beautiful, no one seems to go after her like they would a girl who looked like Brittany Spears or acted like a pop star. Just the kind of girl I always told people I liked, a girl who didnt act 'fake', like most pretty girls.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Go for it
If i was you i'd go for it! It sounds to me as if there is something there that makes me think that she likes you. How do I know, I hear you ask?? Simple my friend, I like a girl that is beautiful, and is not a fake either. She has given me signs/signals and done things similar to what you've described. So like I said go for it NOW, otherwise you might just miss out. I missed out with the girl I liked, and I've never forgiven myself, it's like the sun's fell down on me and the ceilings caved in on my life. Trust me man this isn't a good feeling to have, very depressing and low....my advice to you: DON'T GO DOWN THAT ROAD! MAKE A MOVE NOW....and keep trying until u get in! If you don't do it then I will promise u that someone else will get her!
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