Ways to Start a Conversation
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
This kind of falls into the "how do I ask someone out" question but it's a little different. Thereís this girl who walks through my class everyday and I think I like her a lot but I can't talk to her. Iíve never talked to her before at all. All I can do is watch as she walks by. Everyday I say to myself that Iíll go up to her and say "hey" but I can't do it. Iím afraid that she'll think Iím weird for just randomly talking to her. How do I start a conversation without seeming strange? And she always has friends around and I think it would be easier if she were alone. I'm afraid Iíll sound stupid. I need a way to start up a conversation that seems natural so that I can become friends with her and then hopefully go out with her. What should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
I'm crazy about her
I have a same problem with his.i do not have a girlfriend before but now I like a girl. I m not trying to just pick up a girl. I want to be with her and have a long term relationship. But my problem is I do not know her and afraid to see her and when she saw me I will turn away.The only thing I can do is to walk behind her and secretly admire her.Most of the time she has friend around her.I wanted to talk to her befriends with her but I do not have the courage. she is a good girl she is sweet n the most important thing is she do not have a boyfriends yet which I think is pure.It is a rare chance to find someone like her and i do not want to miss this good chance. we are in secondary school she studied for 4 year and I am 5 year.I still have 1 more year to study in the school but this year is her last year so I only have less than a year time to grab her. Recently I have do some 'Homework' like finding out from monday to friday what time she goes back and who she goes back with and I find out that she sometime goes back alone but sometime with her neighbour which is also study in the same school. I always wanted to take action but I do not know how to andi I have been looking advice and tips on the internet and I find that this guy have similar problem with me. Now I am loss I m crazy about her I keep on think of her the whole day.
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