Please give me some tips on how to act around guys
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi. Okay... I think I am a pretty girl. I'm a nice person but.. I don't know what is wrong with me. Slowly I have gotten better at talking to guys but I can't get any to go out with me. So many guy friends have said I am beautiful, smart, caring.. and so on but if that's true then what's wrong with me. Only the guys I don't want seem to go for me... The guy I do want.. is the first guy I have ever asked out.. he was flirting with me but he is a big flirt and he said he liked me. For the first time ever i felt like a guy actually could like me, but then he eventually said no to going out with me because he wasn't ready for a girlfriend or something but I don't know if that was just to protect my feelings. Please give me some tips on how to act around guys and what my problem could be since I am pretty, (although not conceited) I'm not unpopular (although not like the queen of the school) what could I do? I hope this isn't too long but I have depression and avoidence personality disorder so i freak out easy. please help.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
It's pretty simple most of the good guys out there are just looking for the girl next door. Someone who isn't afraid to just be themselves and is trustworthy. Just be his friend and flirt with him a little bit and he'll get interested.
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