What do I do to mend this relationship ?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
theres this girl that i used to be enemies with, but were complete opposites. im a black wannabe gangsta thats strait and she's white goth wannabe bisexual. but the thing is ive made many attemps to mend our relation ship , but i only botch it up. she thinks she's a bitch, and that saying high thing only works if im friends with her, were not now. the other day she passed out in class and had to go to the hospital, and i realized how much i liked her again (we got in a big verbaly abusive argument before that(she won) so i thought i hated her and thats was the end of it. but then when she passed out i felt like there was a hole in my chest, it took me the rest of the week to realize that i really did like her and care about her.
what do i do to mend this relationship ( i cant visit hr in the hospital) for various reasons). what do I do, id never thought my sworn enemy would be the girl i wanted most in my teenage life! what do i do, i got her myspace page and sent her some friendly messages. valentines day is comming what should i do about that or should i worry about that later? how can I make this disfuntional relation ship that never was work and become a good one?!!!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
you shouldn't think so bad about it. you should talk to her when she gets back and tell her how you feel.trust me girls like us like that. if she really thinks shes a bitch she wont care what your talking about, but if she still has feelings for you she'll let you talk and wont interupt you. you should get her some chocalate and rose dark red roses. if you don't take my advise fine but it sounds like im like her so please take it and do some of this(the flowers don't have to be roses just make them flowers!!)
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