I Want More from my Male Friend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have a friend who I have started to like in the past few months, but I don't really know what to think about the situation. We talk a couple of times a week and we hang out about every other week. The problem is that I just can't get myself to tell him I like him because I have a fear of rejection and I don't want to make things weird. I think he knows I like him because he asked a friend of mine if I did once, but that's it. He flirts with my friends often which hurts me so I'm trying to figure out what to do. Do you have any advice?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Talk to his friend
I am a 29 yr old female who is also going through the same situation. I have had a crush on this guy who is 21 and through all of this I have had many issues with guys rejecting me and taking advantage of me. With this guy one of my friends told him that I liked him and he just stormed away from me. But 2 months ago he started to get friendly with me by hugging me and putting his arm around me, we also have pet names for each other. We also have fun together by talking. So I know what you are going through. I would talk with one of his friends and ask them to talk to him about your feelings for him
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