If he is interested he should do something right?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I moved to this new place early last year and i first met him last April. I remembered i saw him at the train station and we stared at each other for a long time.(He is a white and i am an asian) From then on, whenever i met him on train (we r livin in the same suburb), we will look at each other. Sometimes when i look into his eyes, he will escape from mine and turn his head away. This last for a few months until one day i noticed that he was a punk..he wasnt b4, i think....cultural shock :( It was all of a sudden..but after sometime i came over it. But from then on, he act so cool, he didnt make any move. He never talk to me, smile to me. He just look at me, look into my eyes, and sometimes escape from mine. Because of him i didnt move to live in the city, i choose to stay in that suburb. But he made no move. Should i give up..i dont want to make any move...if he is interested he should do something right? Plz help me...
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Guys don't always make the frst move, sometimes you have to make it or it will never happen. Don't be scared to make the first move because the worst thing that could happen is he say he dont like you. But thats not always bad becuase wether you know it or not there is always someone out there that likes you, you just have to get out there and find out who it is. I know it might seem hard but its truly not. But guys don't always have to make the first move, so don't depend on him becuase thats where heart breaking comes in. So go up to him and be like what are you doing this weekend then tell him to call you or something nothing to big, go SIMPLE.
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