Asking Out a Girl who Has a BF
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
There's this girl in my school i like alot. Its kinda like this, see, shes a really outgoin and friendly girl, shes funny, and kinda loud at times, but really cool, she flirts with a lotta guys, but i think im one of her favorites. Despite this, shes a good person and despite her flirting, she has never cheated on her bf.
Thats where my prob is, were friends, she smiles alot around me, we flirt occasionally, and shes given me a hug or two. I wanna ask her out, but i cant. She has a bf,. like i said, hes in grade 12, me and her are in grade 9, same class, me and her bf are kinda like chums, we hang around and joke occasionally. but i think hes becomin a lil suspicous of me that i may be feelin to close to his fair lady, so to speak.
I plan to ask her out, cuz i heard her bf is leavin soon, after grad. i dont know what to do though, i will keep hangin with her, but i dont want any trouble from her bf, hes a cool guy, so i dont wanna piss him off for no reason. i will ask her out, but i dont know when, it may seem right after her break up, because theyre gonna be seperated, but i dont know if i should, should i wait a bit or what
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
I am a Playa From So. Cal (LOS ANGELES) i am in the same sitution. some what but instead of me needing a girlfriend i already have one. but i am trying to talk to my girlfriends best friend thought. she has a boyfriend too. but i guess as you can see i am one of the people that wants it all. and i am not trying come in between her boyfriend but i think she would have a lot of a happier life with me i am 20 and i work as a Computer Technician for a School district i make plenty of money. as far as her boyfriend he makes sandwhiches for A living. see the differents i feel like i should leave he girl im with and she should leave the boyfriend she wit to be with me i know that sounds crazy but if you were in my shoes you would try and do the same thing. and i am going to do this by making her relize that she can feel %200 more happier been with who could treat her like a woman is supposed to be treated im a Playa FOR real i don't do this sh*t for fun. PEACE
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