I think he's cheating on me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a loonngggggg time now, almost a year and i think he's cheating on me. sometimes, he's suddenly all nice and then he next really mean when i try and talk about something serious. when i ask if he's cheating, he says, "do you think i would cheat on you" and sometimes "believe what you want". he wants sex more than ever now and is upset when i dont. his phonebook has so many girls and so does his resent calls list. he's so easily jealous and hates me being around other guys but gets mad at me when i dont like how he's acting around another girl. he says he loves me, but i dont know if he's just a good actor or a really bad boyfriend. help pleaseeeee.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Is guy cheating?
This is easy to me cause i've had problems like this. I know when a guy is cheating on you. Alright When you first started to go out with him how did he act? Now how does he act now? Has he changed If he has hes cheating. I think. Well i do know when a guy starts accusing you cheating on him i know he is cheating on you.Cause my mom told me thats how she caught my dad.Look if i was you i would tell either you let me talk to any guy i want or its over. Because if you know you wouldn't cheat on him then tell him i won't cheat on you but i don't want you telling me who i can hang out with and who i can't hang with. Because theirs more guys out their hes not the only one. I'm not saying the perfect one but one who doesn't control you.Theirs guys out their who can love you and trust you. And if they really loved you than they would tell you everything.They aren't afraid to hide. But you know what ask yourself "is he really worth keeping" Their is thousands of guys out their not just him. God has someone for everyone. its up to you. Hope this helps you. Laterz
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