He won't talk to me anymore
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
A have this friend who is my crush! When he found out that I had a crush on him, he asked me to be his girlfriend. But we broke up after a day. he seemed cool with it. After that, he won't talk to me anymore. He won't even greet me in the morning as he usualy does. I saw him with another girl that he's courting, but that couldn't be the reason why he's staying away because when we were still friends, he would court other girls but still he would talk to me. He seemed a little uninterested after we broke up. I still want us to be friends but I think he's avoiding me and I don't even know the reason why! How could I start a conversation with him? I miss him but I don't think that he missed me at all. I'm afraid to loose him as a friend. What could be the reason why he's avoiding me? Can we ever become friends again? Why does he seem uninterested with me after we broke up? Please help me.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Don't date friends
This advice is a little to late but maybe it will help you in the future. Don't date friends. Unless you know you will last for a long time.Because when your friends you talk you have no idea you like eachother. But if you go out with him and breakup ya'll would both feel weird. Because he can't just talk to you and act as if ya didn't go out.Just when he's alone talk to him. Tell him its urgent. Sit him down tell him you are serious cause you wanna start out as friends again. it may be weird at first but that you miss talking to him and ask him if he wants misses talking to you as friends. And if he walks away try sending someone else to talk to him for you. Sorry if this don't help you much but it has helped other of my friends.
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