I am 18 years old and I have a 14 year old boy friend. The thing is that I became pregnant by him
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 18 years old and I have a 14 year old boy friend. The thing is that I became pregnant by him and now he acts like he does not even want me anymore. He has now started school again for the fall and I believe that he was cheating on me. Also I have heard stories of how he say that the baby is not his and his parents are going to press charges on me. But the thing is I think that I love him and I believe that he cares about me. But as of now we have not spoken to each other in a weeks time. What advice can you all give me about this situation.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Only God can help
Most teenage boys do not want the responsibility of having a baby, and your boyfriend is only 14 years old. He is really just starting his life as a teenage boy. I mean how did you expect a 14 year old boy to respond to that? He is probably scared, confused, and doesn't know what else to do. He is also probably still very immature in many ways. I think the best thing for you to do is pray and just let things happen as they will. Don't worry about him because he is just a boy and there is no telling when he is going to come around if he does at all. The key fact here is that he is young, but make sure you pray becuase only GOD can help you through.
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