I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 61-70 year old Female
i need so much help. i have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now! in the begining of the relationship he got drunk and cheated on me. he lied to me and tried to cover it up many of times. he said he did that because he didnt want to lose me. now 6 months down the line he's friends with a girl at work and i feel like they flirt, even though he tells me he loves me all the time. i still feeel like he doesn't hear me and im jealous. ill get mad about her all the time. i have seen her and she is very pretty. so that makes my confidence and self-esteem go down. i feel bad beacuse i make him miserable everytime we fight about it. i love him more then anything or anyone. i want us to be happy again, to laugh, and to smile. can you please help me? im so lost.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
What are you talking about george?? Ok, this is what i would do if my boyfriend did that to me... break up, or at least warn him, you DO NOT need to be in pain for what he is doing to your heart! Do you do the same thing? do you flirt with other boys? if you are not, and you know he trusts you and everying why cant you trust him? it is so important in a relationship! if he really loves you, dont you think he would care what you think and hope to God that you dont leave him for what he has done to your feelings? you need to trust him, and he needs to love you just as much as you love him. i hope this helps! ...Abbie
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