Is there any hope or should I give up?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
So I built up the courage and asked out my friend. She shot me down. She is on the rebound and said she was not intereted in dating right now. I asked her if she could ever see us going out in the future she said not really. I am really sad right no. What do I do know. She said we can remain friends. The problem is eveyr time I see her is gonna remind me that I can't have her and then I feel like sh*t. I want to know what I do from here. My main question is is there any hope or should I give up. Her exact words were she's not interetsed in us like that. Then I asked if she could see us dating anywhere down the line and she said not really. Based on this i wanna know the chances of us ever getting together. Should I still be her friend. It is so hard to do.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Ask yourself how you feel
i think you should think things through ask your self do i really feel this way for her? or do i really wanna take a risk on our friendship? if or when we brake up will our friend ship ever remain the same? those are questions u really need to think about!!!!
well good luck and i hope you find what your looking for! JoAnn Lyn
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