Does Losing your Virginity Hurt?



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How much does it hurt for a teenage girl to lose her virginity and how does she know if she's ready?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
It hurt


I lost my virginity two days ago to my boyfriend of 1 and 1/2 years and we did everything. Used lubricant and all but it honestly hurt so sososososososo bad. I couldn't bare it. I've never felt a pain like that in my life and we've never been with anyone but eachother so it couldn't be an std. I wanted to scream and i think i did and i sob cried and it hurt so much i seriously was ready to pass out. It wasn't some thin little skin puncture, i generally deal with pain really well, i have peircings all over my body but this, this was something else and it really really raelly hurt. What could be wrong?

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