He Hugs Me - Does He Like Me?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I like this guy a lot. He is the same age as me and we are friends(sort of). I haven't liked him for a long time and I just started liking him because he started to flirt with me and i liked him a little before he did.
I went to a lock-in at my church and he kept throwing these balls at me and i ran up onto the stage there and wrapped myself up in the curtain. He came up and hugged me while i was in the curtain. He has hugged me before but then i just thought he was messing around with me. I was wondering if he likes me.
Also if he does i want to know if i should go out with him because two of my close friends like him too. Help!!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Look at face
whoa. um here is the thing. guys arent huggy type of people generally. if they hug then they mean they like you. the next time he does it watch his reaction and face afterwards. dont talk just be silent and he'll start talking. if he likes you he wont even say a word and he definetely wont joke around or laugh to make the hug lose its impact. look for a serious caring face, not one that would say hes joking around.
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