I really love my boyfriend A LOT and sometimes I am afraid of losing him
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I really love my boyfriend A LOT and sometimes I am afraid of losing him. We talk on the phone for hours, we both canít get enough of each other but I hate the fact that he likes talking about sexual things. Itís uncomfortable talking about those kind of things to me. When I try to change the subject, he asks ďif we donít talk about this, then who will you talk about it with?Ē I donít know what to do. He says we will always be together, but I donít know if I should trust him, or give him my heart. When we are talking, he tells me how he would love to have sex, and that heís still a virgin. But he knows too much about sexual things. He says he would only lose it with me. At times I feel like heís just saying that so I could do it with him, and other times I believe him. Sometimes when weíre talking he says he can wait until we get married, (if we ever do!) and sometimes he says if we are both in the mood, it might just happen. I am so confused. I donít know what to do anymore. Iím afraid I might just let him and regret it later on. HELP!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
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If youre boyfriend really loves you he will understand you.Say to him that youre not yet ready for that kind of stuff.Dont be afraid of losing him so many boys out there.If he dont want you to lose he will wait.Remember that we-gHiRLs are ROCK!!!!!!
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