How to win her back
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
our love story.
i was in love with this gal i dated for one year. i didnt
know whether i was gonna fall in love with her from
the day i met her. i mean i loved everything about her.
i loved the way her personality, the way she laughed
and especially the way she made me feel. i have been
in love before, but this was the love someone would
develop over time. when you are in the company of
someone long enough, you can't help it but love
them.of course we are not together now but she is the
only person who gave me that special feeling. i tried
to move on but nobody compares to her. its so hard.
especially cause she's moved on and i always think
about how that person she with now is so lucky to
have her. and it hurts to know tt he is doing all the
stuff she used to do with u.and he was my best fren n her ex- boy friend. i hate thinkin about it but
no one is quite like her. i hope one day i move on.
one day soon cause this is drivin me crazy.
If i wanted to win her back. help devise a strategy.
Describe a long term plan to win her back and at the same time stay sane without thinking too much of her.
My age is 17
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Person
Don't reveal feelings
stay in touch with her. but do not reveal your feelings to her. because if this girl figured out that you have feelings for her, you will be just putty in her hands ---she will just toy with your feelings.
this technique worked when a man was trying to win me, 7 years back:
he showered me with lots of attention. then he suddenly stopped. he left me hanging there until i realized that all i ever wanted was him.
true enough, we have been together for seven years.
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