people FAR less attractive than me get dates
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am starting college and still have never had anything remotely close to a girlfriend. I didn't really mind all that much, but now just the site of couples makes me extremely sad. I don't understand why girls don't like me. A female friend of mine reassured me that I will find someone eventually because I am kind, sensitive, sincere, caring, understanding, funny, and smart. But I am just confused and frustrated now, because I realize that I probably never had a girlfriend in high school because I never really tried. But I have been trying very hard lately and no matter how well I dress, how nice I am, how sincere I am in my approach, I fail miserably. And now I think I lost that female friend I talked about earlier, because I thought that maybe we could start dating, and I asked her out(I secretely had a crush on her all along), and she said no. I don't know what's wrong with me. Complete assholes get dates all the time. It can't be my physical appearance because I have seen people FAR less attractive than me getting dates. Can you tell me what is wrong with me?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Be sure and confident
work on confidence. just reading this i can see the phrase wuss all over you. Also, it seems like you are afraid to make jokes of girls, playful jokes though. also, don't ever say i like u first, that makes you seem less dominant. You need to have this attitude like you don't care, its really hot. think alphamale, do they have second t oughts or do they just act? gut feelings are what they work off of and trust me, it doesn't matter what you look like if you can poke fun at her, come across sure and confident, and seem alphamale-ish.
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