I asked her what her answer was but, she won't tell me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 or 6 weeks. And everybody hates that we are going out so, they try to break us up. It worked a couple times, but, we've beat them this time. So far we've been great and i've fallin in love with her. Then the other day we got in a little fight, but, we made up in just like a hour. Then she said something about married, and were only 14. But, I had a idea. So, I went out and bought a ring and asked her to marry me. But, not until we got older, but, for now let us be engaged. We'll she said she'll thank about it. Then, i seen her talkin to her ex, whick is my best friend. I walked up to her and she said that she wanted to talk to him in private so, i left them alone. Then, he went home then I asked her what her answer was but, she won't tell me. What is going on, and what should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Wait 3 years
come on 14 years is too young you got to get real. You wouldn't even know how to live on your own. And look, you still havent hit your purb all the way yet.
And if she was talking to your best man all in private and not with you then she is trying to get with your homie. And at that age she dont care and you probably scared her trying to get all serious about getting married.
Just try to wait about 3 years when your more grown and more mature about thing and then see what happens. But for now just try to get a regular girlfriend with a good young relationship.
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