Now she is 6 months pregnant
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I met this girl 3 years ago and i told her the way i feel for her and i asked her if she would be my girlfriend and she didnt say no but she didnt say yes.What she said was she didnt want to ruin our relationship.After the 3 years ive known her i havent asked her again and now she is 6 months pregnant and ive been there to support her cause the guy that got her pregnant broke up with her and she said that she's going to keep the baby and she dont have a job and she droped out of school and she has a poor family.i still have fellings for her and i have a job im still in school only16 years old.i just need help to tell her that i want to be with her and ill help her raise the baby.she is the most precious girl i know and when i get near her i feel like i cant tell her cause im scared to here her response.i freeze when i get near her and i know she can tell cause she will ask me whats wrong and i will look at her and just say nothing.so if anyone can help i would appreciate it.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Do what you gotta do
If your shy homie your gonna have to try your best because if you dont tell her soon she will think that you dont really care about her no more and just want her as a friend and she will end up wit someone else when you least expect it.
And the way your talking about her it sound real deep and i can tell you have big feelings for this girl and that you might even be in love wit her. It takes love to support a family and if you are willing to do that at this age then be ready for a ride of your life. Just tell the girl that you want to be wit her and there for her no matter what and help her support her baby.
She is going to accept it if you just tell her
You got to do wat you gotta do holmes
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