Now she is 6 months pregnant
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I met this girl 3 years ago and i told her the way i feel for her and i asked her if she would be my girlfriend and she didnt say no but she didnt say yes.What she said was she didnt want to ruin our relationship.After the 3 years ive known her i havent asked her again and now she is 6 months pregnant and ive been there to support her cause the guy that got her pregnant broke up with her and she said that she's going to keep the baby and she dont have a job and she droped out of school and she has a poor family.i still have fellings for her and i have a job im still in school only16 years old.i just need help to tell her that i want to be with her and ill help her raise the baby.she is the most precious girl i know and when i get near her i feel like i cant tell her cause im scared to here her response.i freeze when i get near her and i know she can tell cause she will ask me whats wrong and i will look at her and just say nothing.so if anyone can help i would appreciate it.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Tell her how you feel because the sooner you tell her the easier it will be for both of you later. She needs you now more than ever before.When you see or talk to her. Just be like you have something to tell her and when she say what, take a deep breath and tell her(make sure tell her that it may seem a little crazy but once you say it you will explain it better) once you say it to her for the first time it will be easier to say and talk about it.
GOOD LUCK! Genesis
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